Common Issues With Difficult Advisers
Advisers can be difficult for a variety of reasons, and sometimes it’s an issue of personalities and work styles not meshing well. If you’re wondering whether your adviser’s behavior is problematic, here are some common issues that cause friction in the adviser-student relationship:
- You get no response or very little response when you turn in work
- The adviser expresses frustration or seems disappointed in the work, without providing any guidance or constructive feedback
- The adviser doesn’t gel well with other committee members and contributes to gridlock and delays
- Inappropriate relationships – ie, being overly involved in a student’s life or asking personal questions or favors
- Questionable professional or academic behavior (plagiarizing, lack of regard for ethics, etc)
- Demeaning attitude toward student, harassment, abusive in words or tone
There are two things you can do to create a space where you can still forge ahead with your work and maintain sanity: develop boundaries with you and your work and make them clear to your adviser; and find resources and avenues for support and that help you get what you need to achieve your goals. Both of these can help you manage a difficult person while still taking care of yourself and allowing you to get your work done.
It might also be worth identifying areas where you and your adviser agree, where you’re both on the same page – and then where you diverge. Make a list, and then identify the problems you’re having and what you’d like to see changed. If you can, perhaps meet with your adviser to discuss how these things can be managed to create a successful relationship – ask your adviser if they have ideas about how to move forward, or any alternative solutions.
If you find yourself dealing with these issues and are unable to address them with your adviser, find a faculty member whom you can trust and in a professional manner, ask how you might handle this. Keep any written communications you have with your adviser, document any inappropriate or abusive behavior, and seek support from fellow graduate students to help keep you on track with your work. Update your committee members on your progress and reach out to them with what you need – ie, if you would like to start the next section of your dissertation by a certain date, let them know. This way, if any problems arise, it’s clear where the problem lies.
What is the standard protocol? Some schools will guide you to the departmental chair, while others might suggest going to the ombudsman’s office. The ombudsman will conduct an independent inquiry into an issue and then provide strategies to help resolve conflicts or problems.
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